female problems

[klc314]

woh. this turned ugly fast. old, young, amateur psychologist,, priest, whatever.

females are the same as always, and so are males. the differences are obvious and in many cases delightful. how you as a male deal with them is as different as the number of females out there. i will listen to you guys regarding gaming, but when it comes to psychology, give me doctor phil.

[polonyc2]

it's easy to take certain quotes out of my post and exaggerate its meaning or take it out of context...you need to read the post as a whole along to understand its true meaning...you also need to be able to see the factual parts of my posts versus the facetious side...the shock treatment part of my post was obviously not a 100% serious statement as I was just trying to relate that ATINUT needs some professional help...I believe they don't even use electro shock treatment anymore as it was widely used in the 60's and 70's so that statement by me should have easily been seen for what it was...oh and yes I do believe ctal, Ozzie and most members did in fact understand that but of course cherry picking that comment out makes for good fodder...as zsaz1029 correctly stated, ATINUT has a long history of seriously insulting members and trashing people in a LOT of his posts if you dare to disagree with his opinion...and now the guy finally explains that he went through some issues in his childhood...for me that finally explained a lot about his angry posts and it was a way of somewhat excusing them...then he chooses to go nuts again on me...normally I just ignore his rants as the ramblings of a mad man as I am very patient and never take any forum posts from a random screen name personally or even seriously...online tough guys bore me but I needed to tell ATINUT that his inner pain should not be used as an excuse to exert outward pain onto someone else

no I will not take anything back or apologize because I meant every word of it...every single word...and no its not because I am stubborn, I pride myself on being man enough to admit when I am wrong and always give people credit when they are right

seems like people here seem to equate seeing a psycologist as a 'bad' thing or an insult...sorry but I see it as a way of helping someone...some people need professional help and ATINUT (especially in light of his recent childhood trauma admission) most definitely needs it

maybe you're right...maybe I'm totally psychotic and need major help...hopefully if that were the case someone around me would sign those papers and have me locked in a padded cell...but...I don't see that as being the case though, sorry Oz...although maybe a guy who makes numerous racist posts/rants about Obama then claims ignorance should look into getting himself a checkup soon

http://www.abxzone.com/forums/f105/o...er-112801.html

http://www.abxzone.com/forums/f105/s...ml#post1413963

POTUS Obama through 2012 baby!!...I can feel the heat from Oz's boiling blood all the way in NY...don't worry about the terrorits from outside, worry more about the terrorists/extremists we have inside...don't forget Timothy McVeigh was not Muslim...oh and I don't think I believe in kharma as much as fate (maybe they are inter-related?)

Originally Posted by Ozzie

I really wonder why you want to be a member here with all us old geezers...

maybe you're right wizard of Oz...maybe one day soon I'll just disappear...I am way more active in other forums and do seem to learn more and have more active discussions in other places...I just choose to post here more out of habit then anything else at this point...you could always ban me and make things simple as well...I'll join PCBruiser in ABX purgatory--the place where lost ABX souls get caught between Ying and Yang...then again you and the majority of members will miss me dearly so I don't know if I could hurt you guys like that

Originally Posted by zsaz1029

In my opinion, polonyc2's remarks may have been out of place. BUT THEY WERE NOT OFF THE MARK.

Sometimes, when faced with someone of ATINUT's attitude, hearing all the overly-aggresive, often derogatory comments, even a person of high 'caliber and intelligence' will strike back. Many call this putting someone in their place.

Personally, I feel ATINUT is the single largest source of negativity site-wide. He's the only member I'd as soon skip reading anything he's written, because it's largely laced with hostility.

I guess polonyc2 and I are in the minority.

good post zsaz!!...finally someone who seems to be able to think rationally without any biases...good to know that there are guys like you around here

[JimTram]

Traveling with my wife in the RV up and then down the Alaskan Highway was far worst than shock treatment.

For the younger men - be careful what you wish for!

Originally Posted by Ozzie

I guess I'm an old geezer too...but my wife and I travel a little in the RV, so I'm exempt from shock treatment, right?

Don't get me wrong, I'm a firm believer in Karma. Sooner or later...it'll catch up to you.

[Sir Skully]

Its easy to love the lovable, its easy to be friendly with the friendly...
Here are some words of a time past, that may well apply to the now.

I thought I'd ask a favor of ya'll as children of the stars to reach into your bag of star dust. That star dust of love and forgiveness, sprinkle it liberally over our ABXzone home. Let this star dust dissolve any and all ill feelings toward one another. If we must label one another let it be friend, family is another good one! You want ABXzone to be the best of the best. Then look for the solutions among friends and the ABX family. Not us and them, there is much mojo in the * all * of ABXzone. Come my friends, my ABX family, follow grandpa Skully as he sprinkles the star dust of love and forgiveness over ABXzone. Reach into that bag * now * add your star dust with ole Skully to make one powerful mojo! I for you, you for me, we together, will be the great ABXzone!! The very best place on the internet, for friends, family, and good technical advice/help. This my star dust is spelling out in the heavens above ABXzone *** I LOVE YOU ALL *** Sir Skully

[DBoone]

Many churches have singles groups as well. I would think that environment would alleviate much of the stress and certainly reduce "performance" expectations.

[sammy2066]

I just read through this thread ... All I know is I don't want anybody to leave.

Polo, you have PM.

[Ozzie]

Ford Freak...if I may offer some advice I feel is sound...enjoy the people you are with, be yourself, and don't press for an outcome. If you meet someone of mutual attraction, you'll both know it.
It worked for me - I met the love of my life, but not until I was 33.

[ScuzziOne]

Here in North Alabama, chuch singles groups are a quite popular method of meeting other singles; however, this method personally scares the crap out of me. Would personally go with meeting folks through existing friends and associates...

[sanjay]

Originally Posted by Ford Freak

No, I'm not talking about the once a month stuff or anything like that. I'm talking about GF problems. I'm rather shy when it comes to talking to to new people most of the time. That turns into a slim chance of finding a GF. I don't go to clubs or anything like that either and that doesn't help at all.

It also seems like girls of the wrong age seem to like me or "fight" over me. I'm talking about ones way below the legal limit. My neice is always happy to see me and wants to do stuff with me all the time when we visit each other. I had family come visit me the week of the 4th and we went to Busch Gardens since military gets in for free once a year. One the families my mom met while in New Mexico moved to the Tampa area so we met up with them while down there. We took their 5 y/o daughter to Busch Gardens. Her and my neice kept arguing over who got to go on rides with me.

I don't know what it is. I become an instant favorite with the young ones but I have a hard time meeting ones my own age.

How old is your niece? I read your post as indicating that you are discussing two minors arguing over riding with you? If I am wrong then I apologize, but if I am assuming correctly then I think you might have issues. How old is your niece?

[Ford Freak]

Almost 4.

[zsaz1029]

Originally Posted by sanjay

How old is your niece? I read your post as indicating that you are discussing two minors arguing over riding with you? If I am wrong then I apologize, but if I am assuming correctly then I think you might have issues. How old is your niece?

He has issues because little kids like him? Seems you read it right, but took it wrong.

[polonyc2]

Originally Posted by sanjay

How old is your niece? I read your post as indicating that you are discussing two minors arguing over riding with you? If I am wrong then I apologize, but if I am assuming correctly then I think you might have issues. How old is your niece?

I was actually thinking the same thing when I first read that post...I didn't quite understand that whole anology of little underage girls 'fighting' over him...in the end I hoped it meant something non sexual and innocent, which I think it does and I think he just worded it wrong

Originally Posted by zsaz1029

He has issues because little kids like him? Seems you read it right, but took it wrong.

I can relate to the confusion as well...the way he phrased it actually makes it look like he's a pedophile

[Ford Freak]

I figured that would happen. I am not even close to being a pedophile though.