Goodnight - Page 301

PCBruiser · 11-20-2005, 02:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Gavsman

but those are his personal views about some people
he has a right to express his views to others doesnt he Paragon?

of course what you saying is to some extent right (i dont know the whole thing)
but still.................
i miss FB that is the bottom line

How would you like it if I went to some other forum and started calling you obscene names? Would you like it? If FB is man enough to apologize for doing that to some here, fine, he can come back. But, he was a coward - calling members names behind their backs, not to their faces. That's a coward in my book. And, I am saying that to his face.

JaGWiRE_abx · 11-20-2005, 02:14 AM

I'm speachless. I am just speachless. He specifically commented admins on this forum, how does that not have to do with abxzone? It doesn't matter if it happend here or on mars, he still made disgraceful comments about people here. If you don't have something nice to say, keep it to yourself.

epicbard · 11-20-2005, 02:18 AM

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Originally Posted by PCBruiser

How would you like it if I went to some other forum and started calling you obscene names? Would you like it? If FB is man enough to apologize for doing that to some here, fine, he can come back. But, he was a coward - calling members names behind their backs, not to their faces. That's a coward in my book. And, I am saying that to his face.

well the knee jerk reaction is to ban him. but cooler heads must prevail and we must all live with the simple fact that we cannot control what people say.

Gavsman · 11-20-2005, 02:19 AM

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Originally Posted by PCBruiser

How would you like it if I went to some other forum and started calling you obscene names? Would you like it? If FB is man enough to apologize for doing that to some here, fine, he can come back. But, he was a coward - calling members names behind their backs, not to their faces. That's a coward in my book. And, I am saying that to his face.

yes what you say is right but wouldnt that make the situation even worse?
banned him or her would make that person even more angry .................

sammy2066 · 11-20-2005, 02:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Gavsman

yes what you say is right but wouldnt that make the situation even worse?
banned him or her would make that person even more angry .................

HE IS NOT BANNED!!

Gavsman · 11-20-2005, 02:21 AM

fine . i think of it as that way only........

Arutha_abx · 11-20-2005, 02:22 AM

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Originally Posted by PCBruiser

How would you like it if I went to some other forum and started calling you obscene names? Would you like it? If FB is man enough to apologize for doing that to some here, fine, he can come back. But, he was a coward - calling members names behind their backs, not to their faces. That's a coward in my book. And, I am saying that to his face.

Personally I wouldn't care if I was called a bunch of names on another forum. People in a position of power will always get that and that is just a fact of life. What you guys did I can understand, but I wish we had a forum or judgment thread that we all can pass judgment on the issue. Let everyone see the facts for what they are and not hear about it later.

Gavsman · 11-20-2005, 02:26 AM

spookyload · 11-20-2005, 02:27 AM

That is not what absolute power is about. It is about this...

guiness · 11-20-2005, 02:27 AM

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Originally Posted by PCBruiser

How would you like it if I went to some other forum and started calling you obscene names? Would you like it? If FB is man enough to apologize for doing that to some here, fine, he can come back. But, he was a coward - calling members names behind their backs, not to their faces. That's a coward in my book. And, I am saying that to his face.

So Bring him back so he can reply!!!!

epicbard · 11-20-2005, 02:29 AM

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Originally Posted by spookyload

That is not what absolute power is about. It is about this...

wow i did not know we had that emoticon!

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Originally Posted by guiness

So Bring him back so he can reply!!!!

what he said

PCBruiser · 11-20-2005, 02:30 AM

Right - Arutha, I understand what you are saying. Now, I have about 12,500 posts here. Check it out. 95% are helping other members with problems they have. I have never called another member here an obscene name, I have never disrespected another member behind their backs, I have never flamed anyone no matter how stupid there questions may have been, and I have spent 2 years here helping whenever I could. Do you really think that simply because I have a "postition of power" here that that makes it OK for someone to take shots at me, and others like me, behind my back? That somehow that makes it a proper thing to do? I don't think so, and I sincerely hope that the rest of the members here don't think that way either.

*polonyc2* · 11-20-2005, 02:31 AM

saying something about another member on another forum really should have no bearing on his status at ABX...if the offending comments were made here at ABX then I could understand that actions would need to be taken...that was probably the whole point of him saying those things on another forum because he probably thought that by doing that he could vent without being punished by ABX management...I read the comments that FB made at that "other forum" and yes while insulting it should not have lead to his banning from ABX (temp or otherwise)...it's the same as if you find out that your coworker has said nasty things about you behind your back to another person...does he deserve to get fired over that?...the answer is no

emotional gut reactions usually are the wrong ones and in this case the offended mods should have been the ones to take some time to cool off and then decide the next appropriate course of action...knee jerk emotional decisions are usually the wrong ones

no offense intended on my part to any of the mods/admins here...just thought I'd share my 2 cents

PCBruiser · 11-20-2005, 02:31 AM

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Originally Posted by guiness

So Bring him back so he can reply!!!!

He can come back when he is man enough to apologize for his actions.

guiness · 11-20-2005, 02:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Arutha

Personally I wouldn't care if I was called a bunch of names on another forum. People in a position of power will always get that and that is just a fact of life. What you guys did I can understand, but I wish we had a forum or judgment thread that we all can pass judgment on the issue. Let everyone see the facts for what they are and not hear about it later.

Yes, just because you get a little stain on your white shirt is no reason to rain daggers at Johnny. Resolution among peers has been a foundation of the system for a long time. An uneasy truce is better than forever to mistrust.

11-20-2005, 02:14 AM	#4502
JaGWiRE_abx Registered User Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Posts: 2,912	I'm speachless. I am just speachless. He specifically commented admins on this forum, how does that not have to do with abxzone? It doesn't matter if it happend here or on mars, he still made disgraceful comments about people here. If you don't have something nice to say, keep it to yourself. __________________ DFI LAN PARTY UT NF4, Amd Athlon 3200+ 64 VENICE @ 2.5 ghz (250x4/x10), 1 GB (512x2 in dual channel, 150 divider) OCZ Premier 2.5-3-3-7 @ 2.5-3-3-8, Sapphire Raedon X800XL, Zalman 7700-alcu, OCZ MODSTREAM 450W, Thermaltake Tsunami Silver w/ Window, 1x 250GB WD Sata150 HD, 1x Lite-on DVD-R/RW 1x Pioneer DVD-R/RW, Bios 6-18, Windows XP
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11-20-2005, 02:21 AM	#4506
Gavsman Registered User Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 2,547	fine . i think of it as that way only........ __________________ knock konk i am in abxzone
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11-20-2005, 02:26 AM	#4508
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11-20-2005, 02:27 AM	#4509
spookyload IN-n-Out Expert Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Probably stuck in Iraq! Posts: 2,927	That is not what absolute power is about. It is about this...
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11-20-2005, 02:30 AM	#4512
PCBruiser Registered User Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 13,497	Right - Arutha, I understand what you are saying. Now, I have about 12,500 posts here. Check it out. 95% are helping other members with problems they have. I have never called another member here an obscene name, I have never disrespected another member behind their backs, I have never flamed anyone no matter how stupid there questions may have been, and I have spent 2 years here helping whenever I could. Do you really think that simply because I have a "postition of power" here that that makes it OK for someone to take shots at me, and others like me, behind my back? That somehow that makes it a proper thing to do? I don't think so, and I sincerely hope that the rest of the members here don't think that way either.
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11-20-2005, 02:31 AM	#4513
polonyc2 Helter Skelter Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: New York City Posts: 7,506	saying something about another member on another forum really should have no bearing on his status at ABX...if the offending comments were made here at ABX then I could understand that actions would need to be taken...that was probably the whole point of him saying those things on another forum because he probably thought that by doing that he could vent without being punished by ABX management...I read the comments that FB made at that "other forum" and yes while insulting it should not have lead to his banning from ABX (temp or otherwise)...it's the same as if you find out that your coworker has said nasty things about you behind your back to another person...does he deserve to get fired over that?...the answer is no emotional gut reactions usually are the wrong ones and in this case the offended mods should have been the ones to take some time to cool off and then decide the next appropriate course of action...knee jerk emotional decisions are usually the wrong ones no offense intended on my part to any of the mods/admins here...just thought I'd share my 2 cents __________________ ASUS Maximus Formula (X38) *** EVGA 8800GT Superclocked 512MB Intel E8400 * Arctic Cooling Freezer 7 Pro G.Skill 4 GB (2 X 2 GB) DDR2 800 4-4-4-12 * Western Digital RE2 500 GB WD5001ABYS Lian Li PC-A70B (black) * Corsair HX620 AuzenTech Auzen X-Fi Prelude 7.1 * Creative Inspire P5800 5.1 speakers Lite-On DVD-RW w/LightScribe LH-20A1L-06 * Sony GDM-F520 21' CRT monitor (19.8' viewable) Vista Business 64-bit w/SP1 * standard 3.5" floppy drive Microsoft Laser Mouse 6000 *** Microsoft Wired Keyboard 500 (Black)
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